Tuesday, February 4, 2020

Dwell Among The Living

LOL. I just realized that this reflection is for yesterday's gospel!!! I came home so sick from Hawaii and was home sick yesterday so I totally thought today was Monday. So sorry for the mix up, but enjoy anyway....

Many things afflict us and because of those afflictions we may find ourselves living “among the tombs” like the man in today’s gospel. People suffering from mental illness in Jesus’ time were considered possessed by demons and they tended to congregate in the cemeteries because they could find shelter among the stones and the general population did not frequent it as much. Raise your hand if you have ever dwelt in a lifeless place and withdrew yourself from people. It’s an easy thing to do really. When we feel “not right” we tend to want to gather with like minded others because it somehow comforts us and we might even rebuke those that are well because their wellness makes our afflictions seem all the more oppressive. 

The good news is that we cannot hide from Jesus and He comes after us even into our secluded places. He calls our afflictions by name to send them away. He also wants us to come out of our hiding and to thrive. Let’s turn to him today and as He calls out things like fear, deception, jealousy, confusion, insecurity, infirmity, etc. let them go and choose to dwell among the living. The only hiding place Jesus wants for us is in His arms, under a mantle of mercy, clothed in love, and wrapped in light. 

I just got back from Hawaii to attend my Grandmother’s funeral. It was an amazing trip filled with lots of family visiting, spectacular sunrises, all my comfort foods, drives to the North Shore to watch the big waves, and visits to every favorite beach. Each of these life-giving encounters offset the tomb. The priest who presided at Grandmother’s funeral told us that the name Ethel means “noble” and that indeed was my Grandmother’s legacy. She lost her husband to a very early death at age 44, but he had everything in place for her and their four children to thrive. He purchased a property with an apartment building in back so that Ethel would have income when he passed away. He was a firefighter with severe asthma and he knew deep down that he would die early. He made sure that she was set up and she did raise those four children to be strong and educated individuals who also raised strong and well-rounded children of their own. The one thing that we all shared about Grandmother was her fortitude and her consistency. She was a woman of few words, but she always said what she meant. She never waivered in her resolve and her authenticity was her biggest attribute. I was given the privilege of doing the music for the funeral and when it came time for me to sing the song I wrote called, You Are My Favorite, I realized that the last verse reads, “Whatever is noble, whatever is true, whatever is lovely, makes me think of you. Whatever is righteous, whatever is pure, think of these things, and you will know for sure…that you are my favorite. Arise my darling, come. In you I take delight. You are my beloved one. No longer be afraid, I am with you for all time. I have called you by name. I am yours and you are mine.” What a perfect tribute to Ethel and she now dwells among the living for eternity. It is well with my soul. 
Mom looks like her. 


Her smile! This was a few months before Grandpa died. 

She always wore a hat and muumuu to church.
























Reading 1 2 SM 15:13-14, 30; 16:5-13

An informant came to David with the report,
“The children of Israel have transferred their loyalty to Absalom.”
At this, David said to all his servants
who were with him in Jerusalem:
“Up!  Let us take flight, or none of us will escape from Absalom.
Leave quickly, lest he hurry and overtake us,
then visit disaster upon us and put the city to the sword.”
As David went up the Mount of Olives, he wept without ceasing.
His head was covered, and he was walking barefoot.
All those who were with him also had their heads covered
and were weeping as they went.
As David was approaching Bahurim,
a man named Shimei, the son of Gera
of the same clan as Saul’s family,
was coming out of the place, cursing as he came.
He threw stones at David and at all the king’s officers,
even though all the soldiers, including the royal guard,
were on David’s right and on his left.
Shimei was saying as he cursed:
“Away, away, you murderous and wicked man!
The LORD has requited you for all the bloodshed in the family of Saul,
in whose stead you became king,
and the LORD has given over the kingdom to your son Absalom.
And now you suffer ruin because you are a murderer.”
Abishai, son of Zeruiah, said to the king:
“Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king?
Let me go over, please, and lop off his head.”
But the king replied: “What business is it of mine or of yours,
sons of Zeruiah, that he curses?
Suppose the LORD has told him to curse David;
who then will dare to say, ‘Why are you doing this?’”
Then the king said to Abishai and to all his servants:
“If my own son, who came forth from my loins, is seeking my life,
how much more might this Benjaminite do so?
Let him alone and let him curse, for the LORD has told him to.
Perhaps the LORD will look upon my affliction
and make it up to me with benefits
for the curses he is uttering this day.”
David and his men continued on the road,
while Shimei kept abreast of them on the hillside,
all the while cursing and throwing stones and dirt as he went.

Responsorial 3:2-3, 4-5, 6-7

R.    (8a)  Lord, rise up and save me.
O LORD, how many are my adversaries!
Many rise up against me!
Many are saying of me,
“There is no salvation for him in God.”
R.    Lord, rise up and save me.
But you, O LORD, are my shield;
my glory, you lift up my head!
When I call out to the LORD,
he answers me from his holy mountain.
R.    Lord, rise up and save me.
When I lie down in sleep,
I wake again, for the LORD sustains me.
I fear not the myriads of people
arrayed against me on every side.
R.    Lord, rise up and save me.

Alleluia LK 7:16

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
A great prophet has arisen in our midst
and God has visited his people.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.

Gospel MK 5:1-20

Jesus and his disciples came to the other side of the sea,
to the territory of the Gerasenes.
When he got out of the boat,
at once a man from the tombs who had an unclean spirit met him.
The man had been dwelling among the tombs,
and no one could restrain him any longer, even with a chain.
In fact, he had frequently been bound with shackles and chains,
but the chains had been pulled apart by him and the shackles smashed,
and no one was strong enough to subdue him.
Night and day among the tombs and on the hillsides
he was always crying out and bruising himself with stones.
Catching sight of Jesus from a distance,
he ran up and prostrated himself before him,
crying out in a loud voice,
“What have you to do with me, Jesus, Son of the Most High God?
I adjure you by God, do not torment me!”
(He had been saying to him, “Unclean spirit, come out of the man!”)
He asked him, “What is your name?”
He  replied, “Legion is my name.  There are many of us.”
And he pleaded earnestly with him
not to drive them away from that territory.
Now a large herd of swine was feeding there on the hillside.
And they pleaded with him,
“Send us into the swine.  Let us enter them.”
And he let them, and the unclean spirits came out and entered the swine.
The herd of about two thousand rushed down a steep bank into the sea,
where they were drowned.
The swineherds ran away and reported the incident in the town
and throughout the countryside.
And people came out to see what had happened.
As they approached Jesus,
they caught sight of the man who had been possessed by Legion,
sitting there clothed and in his right mind.
And they were seized with fear.
Those who witnessed the incident explained to them what had happened
to the possessed man and to the swine.
Then they began to beg him to leave their district.
As he was getting into the boat,
the man who had been possessed pleaded to remain with him.
But Jesus would not permit him but told him instead,
“Go home to your family and announce to them
all that the Lord in his pity has done for you.”
Then the man went off and began to proclaim in the Decapolis
what Jesus had done for him; and all were amazed.


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