Tuesday, June 19, 2018

This Is Not A Suggestion

19 June 2018

Gospel MT 5:43-48

Jesus said to his disciples:
"You have heard that it was said,
You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.
BUT I SAY TO YOU, (emphasis added by me) love your enemies
and pray for those who persecute you,
that you may be children of your heavenly Father,
for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good,
and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.
For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have?
Do not the tax collectors do the same?
And if you greet your brothers only,
what is unusual about that?
Do not the pagans do the same?
So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect."

Friends (and “enemies”), there it is in red letters, spelled out by the Savior of the world, the one we claim to follow as Christians! This is NOT a suggestion. Why don’t we get it? I know that in the past I have fallen into traps that sound like, “well, the best way for me to love them is to ignore them, or, I can love them without having them in my life, or, tough love is still love, right?” I remember reading this gospel a few years ago in the midst of a trial that surfaced a handful of “enemies” (people that hurt me AND people that I had hurt) in my life. Jesus’ words smacked me right across my face. I had already allowed bitterness, anger, self-righteousness, jealousy, and selfishness to direct my thoughts and words about said “enemies”. It was a dark time, but this very gospel pierced that darkness with the only answer, and that is to love with sacrificial radical love. 

So I started praying for my freaking persecutors, very reluctantly at first, but I prayed for them multiple times a day, every time I had bad thoughts or negative voices in my head (which was A LOT!). I remember one day that my reluctance to pray for them had softened into a desire to pray for them. Praying the litany of their names turned into a tender reverence, and soon after that softening my heart followed. My prayers for my “enemies” became the most beautiful part of my day and I began to feel true love in the depths of my soul for each and every one of them. I started praying for their families, that peace, love, joy, kindness, patience, and gentleness would be abundant blessings in their life, that this day would be the best day of their lives filled with everything lovely and true. Eventually I found myself thinking of them with the same warmth in my heart I have when I think of my beloveds. Praying daily for my “enemies” transformed my heart and the bitterness, anger, self-righteousness, jealousy and selfishness converted into sweetness, peace, tenderness, humility, and true love. Recently, I encountered one of the people that I have been praying for daily by name and my heart literally surged with a joy that I never thought would be possible. The space between us turned into holy ground because of this transformation through prayer. 

Today’s gospel is not a suggestion. It is required if we are to “be children of your heavenly Father”. My prayer is that we will love each other the way the Father loves us, perfectly. We can do it, friends. We have to do it. This is not a suggestion. God bless your day and it is well with my soul. 

Reading 1 1 KGS 21:17-29

After the death of Naboth the LORD said to Elijah the Tishbite:
"Start down to meet Ahab, king of Israel,
who rules in Samaria.
He will be in the vineyard of Naboth,
of which he has come to take possession.
This is what you shall tell him,
'The LORD says: After murdering, do you also take possession?
For this, the LORD says:
In the place where the dogs licked up the blood of Naboth,
the dogs shall lick up your blood, too.'"
Ahab said to Elijah, "Have you found me out, my enemy?"
"Yes," he answered.
"Because you have given yourself up to doing evil in the LORD's sight,
I am bringing evil upon you: I will destroy you
and will cut off every male in Ahab's line,
whether slave or freeman, in Israel.
I will make your house like that of Jeroboam, son of Nebat,
and like that of Baasha, son of Ahijah,
because of how you have provoked me by leading Israel into sin."
(Against Jezebel, too, the LORD declared,
"The dogs shall devour Jezebel in the district of Jezreel.")
"When one of Ahab's line dies in the city,
dogs will devour him;
when one of them dies in the field,
the birds of the sky will devour him."
Indeed, no one gave himself up to the doing of evil
in the sight of the LORD as did Ahab,
urged on by his wife Jezebel.
He became completely abominable by following idols,
just as the Amorites had done,
whom the LORD drove out before the children of Israel.

When Ahab heard these words, he tore his garments
and put on sackcloth over his bare flesh.
He fasted, slept in the sackcloth, and went about subdued.
Then the LORD said to Elijah the Tishbite,
"Have you seen that Ahab has humbled himself before me?
Since he has humbled himself before me,
I will not bring the evil in his time.
I will bring the evil upon his house during the reign of his son."

Responsorial Psalm PS 51:3-4, 5-6AB, 11 AND 16

R. (see 3a) Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
Have mercy on me, O God, in your goodness;
in the greatness of your compassion wipe out my offense.
Thoroughly wash me from my guilt
and of my sin cleanse me. 
R. Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
For I acknowledge my offense,
and my sin is before me always:
"Against you only have I sinned,
and done what is evil in your sight."
R. Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
Turn away your face from my sins,
and blot out all my guilt.
Free me from blood guilt, O God, my saving God;
then my tongue shall revel in your justice.
R. Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.

Alleluia JN 13:34

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
I give you a new commandment;
love one another as I have loved you.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.

Gospel MT 5:43-48

Jesus said to his disciples:
"You have heard that it was said,
You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.
But I say to you, love your enemies
and pray for those who persecute you,
that you may be children of your heavenly Father,
for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good,
and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.
For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have?
Do not the tax collectors do the same?
And if you greet your brothers only,
what is unusual about that?
Do not the pagans do the same?
So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect."

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